Understanding

Understanding is the ability to comprehend and interpret information. It is essential for building relationships, for empathising with others and for making good decisions. In the Catholic faith, we are called to be understanding of others and to be compassionate towards them, even when we disagree with them.


Day 1 – Start with scripture

We start with the Sign of the Cross.

Have a read of this scripture passage. Think about what it has to do with the theme of understanding.

A Reading from the Holy Gospel According to Mark
R. Glory to You O Lord

They went on from there and passed through Galilee. And he did not want anyone to know, for he was teaching his disciples, saying to them, “The Son of Man is going to be delivered into the hands of men, and they will kill him. And when he is killed, after three days he will rise.” But they did not understand the saying, and were afraid to ask him.

And they came to Capernaum. And when he was in the house he asked them, “What were you discussing on the way?” But they kept silent, for on the way they had argued with one another about who was the greatest. And he sat down and called the twelve. And he said to them, “If anyone would be first, he must be last of all and servant of all.” And he took a child and put him in the midst of them, and taking him in his arms, he said to them, “Whoever receives one such child in my name receives me, and whoever receives me, receives not me but him who sent me.”

The Gospel of the Lord
R. Praise to you Lord Jesus Christ

Mark 9:30-37

Spend some time in pairs or threes and talk about the question below. When you’re finished share them with the whole form and see where the dialogue takes you.

Discussion Question:

What do the disciples argue about as they walk towards Capernaum? Why do you think they’re having this discussion?

Why do you think the disciples struggle to understand Jesus’ teaching? What might be hindering their understanding?

How does Jesus respond to their argument? What does he mean when he says, “Whoever wants to be first must be last of all and servant of all”?

Why does Jesus use the image of a child to illustrate his point? What qualities do children often possess that Jesus is highlighting?

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We end with a prayer:

Heavenly Father, You are the source of all wisdom and understanding. Open our minds to Your truth and help us to see the world through Your eyes. Grant us the grace to listen attentively to others and to understand their perspectives. May we be slow to speak and quick to listen, so that we may grow in love and compassion.

We ask this through Christ our Lord,

Amen 

Day 2 – Understanding Understanding

You’re invited to begin by making the Sign of the Cross…

This morning, for a few moments, as a group, discuss what qualities demonstrate understanding. Write these qualities on the whiteboard…

  • Examples: empathy, patience, open-mindedness etc… Can you think of more?

Personal Reflections: Think for a moment of a personal experience where you felt understood or misunderstood. How did it make you feel?

Share and Discuss: Would anyone like to share their experiences? Discuss how the qualities of understanding were present or absent in the situation.

Create a Prayer: Together, write a prayer based on the qualities of understanding. Use the experiences shared and the qualities discussed as inspiration and share it in the comments box below and read it as a form to end…

We end with the Sign of the Cross

Day 3 -Listening and Understanding

We start with the Sign of the Cross…

This week we have been focussing on the word ‘Understanding.’ One of the main ways to come to understand something is through listening… Listening to God’s Word is a powerful way to connect with Him. It’s like having a conversation with a friend. When you read a scripture passage, sometimes it can be hard to understand the meaning. Remember, understanding God’s Word takes time and practice. The more you listen, the closer you’ll feel to Him.

Listen to the song below by Emma Nissen… “Hear Him” is a powerful and inspiring song that encourages listeners to tune in to the voice of God. The song paints a vivid picture of a personal connection with God and might be helpful for those of us looking for guidance, peace, and a deeper understanding of their faith.

We end with a prayer:

Heavenly Father,

We come to You today seeking Your guidance and understanding. Open our ears to Your Word. Help us to listen attentively and with an open mind.

Illuminate our understanding, so that we may grasp the depth of Your love and the power of Your promises. That we not only hear Your Word, but also comprehend its meaning and apply it to our lives. Amen

19 comments

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9CPO

The disciples are arguing about what Jesus means and who the number one disciple is.
They struggle and are confused about Him dying and rising again, this is not normal.
Jesus responds with “If anyone would be first, he must be last of all and servant of all.”
Jesus uses the image of a child because children are innocent and believe what they are taught.

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8ACA

Maybe they struggle to understand that when Jesus dies his words will also die. They can’t understand that he will exist in their lives forever. The disciples stay silent probably because they are embarrassed about boasting that they are better than each other because God sees everyone as equal.

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7MFI

Arguing about who is the best or greatest. Who is the son of man.

The disciples struggle to understand Jesus’ teaching because they don’t know who the son of man is. Being human, they struggle to understand God’s mysterious ways.

Jesus maybe means that to get into the Kingdom of Heaven, you must first put yourself last, meaning that you must always help others, and be supportive and caring.

He is showing it is harder for a child to sin, because they don’t know what they’re doing yet.

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8JBa

The disciples were arguing about who was the greatest. The disciples were struggling to understand because they were afraid to ask him what he meant. This applies to us in class because sometimes we don’t ask questions because we can be afraid people will judge us or think we are silly.

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11MF

jesus spoke in parables

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10GH

It is important to show ‘understanding’ when working in our academic subjects but also to show ‘understanding’ of those around us.. Empathy and compassion to each individual are vital in make our community better.

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10API

What do the disciples argue about as they walk towards Capernaum? Why do you think they’re having this discussion?
– arguing who was the greatest
– people have different opinions; want to understand them

Why do you think the disciples struggle to understand Jesus’ teaching? What might be hindering their understanding?

– they weren’t willing to learn so they struggled to understand

How does Jesus respond to their argument? What does he mean when he says, “Whoever wants to be first must be last of all and servant of all”?

– By getting them to understand

Why does Jesus use the image of a child to illustrate his point? What qualities do children often possess that Jesus is highlighting?

– the have the ability to grow to become stronger
– they all have the ability to learn.

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10-LF

They argued about who is the greatest. It says that he will be killed and will then rise again. This can be a hard concept to understand. With great power comes great responsibility.

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Mrs Potter

If a person is understanding they have these qualities: sympathy, respectful, kind, generous, a good listener, a good communicator,
Sometimes in a lesson when we get a warning and we don’t understand what it is for, we feel misunderstood.

‘Dear God, please help me understand others but also world leaders to help understand those who really suffer to help and save them. Amen’.

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9CG

The disciples argued about who is the greatest, and who is going to die and resurrect.

The disciples struggled to understand Jesus’s teaching because the holy spirit wasn’t in their heart. When the holy spirit is with you, you can understand what Jesus teaches us. They struggle to understand because he is speaking in riddles.

He expected them to understand because they have been with him for a while.

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12FSM

-because humans are insecure and feel a need to be superior to others
– they are not fully secure in trusting God’s omniscience and omnibenevolence and thus are struggling to understand
-because they have lots of ego and arrogance
-they are scared of him
-not understanding each other
-being afraid

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13LT

Our thoughts on the gospel. If you want God to accept you, you have to be humble. The disciples did not have full knowledge and understanding to appreciate the lesson.

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8JHO

People may have been confused by what he was saying and asking us to do. Some of Jesus’ teachings were unorthodox at the time. Also confused as to why he was telling them these things, some people may not have believed in him. A lot of metaphors may have been used which may have been difficult to understand. Some people may have thought he was just trying to predict the future.

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11MF

Dear God,
Help us be sympathetic and compassionate to those in need. Give us the strength to be open minded. Help us to have patience with those in the time of need. Help us to communicate to people that are struggling. Show us how to listen to those that have a lot in their mind.Amen

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8ETo

They were arguing about who is the most powerful.

If you want to be first then you first have to be at the bottom. God teaches that we are all equal and they were saying they were not. They had too much pride.

It means you have to grow and develop until you can be at the top.

It is because the child is pure and we grow from a child to a wiser adult.
(Thank you Pamela!)

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7HLE

Who the the greatest. The greatest is the most popular, it is about helping and accepting others.
Uses a child to show that everyone is welcome.
Being misunderstood:
– Feel sad because people don’t always want to understand
– Makes us feel bad about ourselves
– Bit angry

How can we make people feel better:
– Ask them if they are ok, if they would like to join in
– Smile
– Compliment them, show kindness

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10API

Qualities that show understanding:
– Being a good listener
– Giving them feedback – advice
– empathy,
– patience,
-open-mindedness

Dear Lord,

Help us to have the patience to be understanding. Give us the ability to listen carefully. Help us have a positive attitude towards people’s feelings, opinions and views.

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8NH

Listen to the person who guides you. Understand the thoughts and ideas of others even if you don’t agree.

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7Eta

Dear God,

Allow us to understand other people’s perspectives so that we can see how they view us, that way we can be guided on to the right path. If we understand others’ feelings, we can show sympathy, support and compassion to get them through a difficult time. We would also appreciate your support in understanding the word of God so we can be good disciples/stewards and succeed in our own personal missions.

Amen

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