Understanding is the ability to comprehend and interpret information. It is essential for building relationships, for empathising with others and for making good decisions. In the Catholic faith, we are called to be understanding of others and to be compassionate towards them, even when we disagree with them.
Day 1 – Start with scripture
We start with the Sign of the Cross.
Have a read of this scripture passage. Think about what it has to do with the theme of understanding.
A Reading from the Holy Gospel According to Mark
R. Glory to You O LordThey went on from there and passed through Galilee. And he did not want anyone to know, for he was teaching his disciples, saying to them, “The Son of Man is going to be delivered into the hands of men, and they will kill him. And when he is killed, after three days he will rise.” But they did not understand the saying, and were afraid to ask him.
And they came to Capernaum. And when he was in the house he asked them, “What were you discussing on the way?” But they kept silent, for on the way they had argued with one another about who was the greatest. And he sat down and called the twelve. And he said to them, “If anyone would be first, he must be last of all and servant of all.” And he took a child and put him in the midst of them, and taking him in his arms, he said to them, “Whoever receives one such child in my name receives me, and whoever receives me, receives not me but him who sent me.”
The Gospel of the Lord
Mark 9:30-37
R. Praise to you Lord Jesus Christ
Spend some time in pairs or threes and talk about the question below. When you’re finished share them with the whole form and see where the dialogue takes you.

Discussion Question:
What do the disciples argue about as they walk towards Capernaum? Why do you think they’re having this discussion?
Why do you think the disciples struggle to understand Jesus’ teaching? What might be hindering their understanding?
How does Jesus respond to their argument? What does he mean when he says, “Whoever wants to be first must be last of all and servant of all”?
Why does Jesus use the image of a child to illustrate his point? What qualities do children often possess that Jesus is highlighting?
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We end with a prayer:
Heavenly Father, You are the source of all wisdom and understanding. Open our minds to Your truth and help us to see the world through Your eyes. Grant us the grace to listen attentively to others and to understand their perspectives. May we be slow to speak and quick to listen, so that we may grow in love and compassion.
We ask this through Christ our Lord,
Amen
Day 2 – Understanding Understanding
You’re invited to begin by making the Sign of the Cross…
This morning, for a few moments, as a group, discuss what qualities demonstrate understanding. Write these qualities on the whiteboard…
- Examples: empathy, patience, open-mindedness etc… Can you think of more?
Personal Reflections: Think for a moment of a personal experience where you felt understood or misunderstood. How did it make you feel?
Share and Discuss: Would anyone like to share their experiences? Discuss how the qualities of understanding were present or absent in the situation.
Create a Prayer: Together, write a prayer based on the qualities of understanding. Use the experiences shared and the qualities discussed as inspiration and share it in the comments box below and read it as a form to end…
We end with the Sign of the Cross
Day 3 -Listening and Understanding
We start with the Sign of the Cross…
This week we have been focussing on the word ‘Understanding.’ One of the main ways to come to understand something is through listening… Listening to God’s Word is a powerful way to connect with Him. It’s like having a conversation with a friend. When you read a scripture passage, sometimes it can be hard to understand the meaning. Remember, understanding God’s Word takes time and practice. The more you listen, the closer you’ll feel to Him.
Listen to the song below by Emma Nissen… “Hear Him” is a powerful and inspiring song that encourages listeners to tune in to the voice of God. The song paints a vivid picture of a personal connection with God and might be helpful for those of us looking for guidance, peace, and a deeper understanding of their faith.
We end with a prayer:
Heavenly Father,
We come to You today seeking Your guidance and understanding. Open our ears to Your Word. Help us to listen attentively and with an open mind.
Illuminate our understanding, so that we may grasp the depth of Your love and the power of Your promises. That we not only hear Your Word, but also comprehend its meaning and apply it to our lives. Amen



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